welcome to perfectly you

A library of personal stories, meaningful lessons, and tools for growth.

be perfectly YOU

be perfectly YOU

Hi, I’m Riley!

I’ve experienced a lot in my 40 (+1) years - challenges, joys, and moments that have transformed me deeply.

I’ve always been curious about what makes us who we are and believe life’s purpose is to grow, learn, and embrace the messy, beautiful human experience.

My hope is that this space makes you feel seen, understood, and safe. Here, I share the stories, lessons, and tools that have shaped me - so you can take what resonates and write your own chapters of growth.

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The Creative Flow Disappeared…So I Wrote About it Anyway
The Creative Flow Disappeared…So I Wrote About it Anyway

Creativity isn’t always about feeling inspired. Some days, the flow disappears, and everything feels blah. In this post, I explore what happens when I write anyway - without waiting for inspiration to strike. Maybe the blah isn’t a block after all. Maybe it’s part of the process.

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Realigning with Yourself: Small Steps to a More Authentic Life
Realigning with Yourself: Small Steps to a More Authentic Life

Realigning your life doesn’t have to mean big changes. Here’s how I’m making small, intentional shifts to feel more like me—and how you can too.

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Why Posting on Social Media Feels So Hard (And How to Show Up Authentically)
Why Posting on Social Media Feels So Hard (And How to Show Up Authentically)

Why does something as simple as posting online feel so complicated? For me, it’s more than just the fear of judgment—it’s the fear that the real me isn’t enough. But hiding isn’t the answer either.

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