Hi, again!

If I had to sum up my life, I’d call it a wild mix of lessons, growth, and rediscovery.

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been fascinated by personal development and the human spirit. Even as a kid, I loved asking big questions - who we are, why we do what we do, and how we can grow.

I was always reading self-help books, taking personality quizzes, and trying to figure myself out. But for years, all of that knowledge just lived in my head. I understood the concepts, but I wasn’t actually living them.

And for most of my life, I felt like I was stuck in a Goldilocks story -never quite enough, always too much. Too quiet, but never confident enough. Too sensitive, but not strong enough. Too much of something, yet somehow never quite enough of anything.

So, I did what a lot of us do - I learned to shrink myself. I became a people pleaser, bending over backward to meet everyone else’s expectations until I completely lost touch with my own.

Everything began to change eight years ago when I got sober. That one decision set off a chain reaction in my life. It was like all the lessons I’d been absorbing for years finally had room to take root.

I finally let go of toxic relationships, figured out how to love myself, and learned to set boundaries.

It wasn’t easy, but it was so worth it.

Through it all, I’ve realized one thing: I never needed to be "just right"—I just needed to be me. And I want that for you, too.

My purpose is to help people reconnect with themselves, feel safe being who they are, and create lives that feel true to them - not what they think is expected of them. Because you don’t need to be more or less of anything. You’re already just right.


so happy you're here

so happy you're here ♡

A few fun facts about me…

  • Capricorn Sun, Gemini Moon, Scorpio Rising → A mix of overachiever, overthinker, and deep feeler.

  • 5/1 Reflector (Human Design) → I take in everything around me and won’t rest until I’ve researched every possible angle to make sense of it all.

  • Enneagram 9 → Chronic people-pleaser in recovery.

  • Self-help book addict → If it promises life-changing insights, I’ve probably read it.

  • Impulse learner → I go deep on everything that fascinates me (which is... a lot).

  • Overanalyzer of all things → I can (and will) spend hours dissecting why people do what they do.

  • Wife & mom of three → Married to my favorite person in the world and raising three wild, wonderful boys.

  • A walking contradiction → I love a perfectly organized spreadsheet but have a pile of clothes permanently living on my chair. I crave structure but thrive in chaos. Half my brain is numbers and logic; the other half is intuition and feelings. Somehow, it works.